I had this thought this weekend and I just want to share…
Living with a sociopath or narcissist is like getting a daily dose of venom from a “poisonous pet”. We love our “pet” but it’s venom slowly destroys us. In fact, we don’t even realize that we are getting “bit” or “poisoned” because the pain becomes part of us and acceptable… especially if we have grown up with such poisonous people. And too many people do not understand this because they have never had to deal with having a “pet” that becomes poisonous.
We need to let go of our “poisonous pets” and all toxic relationships. The negativity of these people tear us down and the destructive forces that are projected from them are damaging to our hearts and souls. Letting go is one of the first steps in the recovery from the damage that has been inflicted upon us.
The “poison” has to stop for the healing to begin!
Then we need to hold onto the One who heals and restores. He has plans for us that far exceed the limitations set by those who speak poison into our lives. He has a True Love for us that will never hurt us or tear us down in any way. He has plans for us that are for good, not for harm; to give us a future and a hope… for our Hope is in Him. Our Strength is in Him. But we have to let go of this world and all the pain of our past to overcome the obstacles that are placed before us and walk into the fullness that He has planned for us as His children.
“But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” 1 John 4:8
Dear Lord, You see the multitude who have honestly loved only to be mistreated by those who destroy. You see the wounds down to the depths and souls of these victims of narcissistic and sociopath abusers. Bring healing and restoration to every heart and soul. Remove the “poison” that has been injected within each victim and set them free from the soul ties that have been established with these “poisonous” individuals. Help them to “let go” and walk into their future with You. Let them experience True Love that can only come from You… for You are Love… in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
© Secret Angel and The Abuse Expose’ with Secret Angel, 2015.