Beware of “Delusions of Grandeur”

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 Beware of “Delusions of grandeur”…
which is the superiority that some believe…
but it is only a delusion…
and used to manipulate and deceive.
For some with delusions of grandeur…
believe their “stories” are grand…
and used to build themselves up falsely…
like upon a pedestal they stand.
And many abusers use this…
as a tactic to trick and manipulate…
for victims don’t know it’s a delusion…
nor realize the truth or lies to navigate.
And most narcissistic abusers… Continue reading

Children of a Narcissist Struggle

Children of a narcissist struggle…
as they have to learn on their own.
For they love both their parents…
but cringe when the anger’s shown.
They learn to walk on eggshells…
as they tip-toe around that parent…
trying not to trigger that response…
though the rising anger’s apparent. Continue reading

“Poisonous Pets” or GOD: Who Do You Want To Hold Onto

I had this thought this weekend and I just want to share…

Living with a sociopath or narcissist is like getting a daily dose of venom from a “poisonous pet”. We love our “pet” but it’s venom slowly destroys us. In fact, we don’t even realize that we are getting “bit” or “poisoned” because the pain becomes part of us and acceptable… especially if we have grown up with such poisonous people.  Continue reading

“Note to Self”~~ Red Flags of Abuse

So many of us who have been victims of abuse look back upon our lives and realize all of the warning signs that we ignored over the years… even from the beginning. The red flags were there… but we ignored them or believed the deception. And as I thought back over some of the early warning signs in my life recently, the thoughts came to me with the words “note to self”. You see, we have to be aware of the signs and never fall victim to them again. Here are a few of my “notes to self”. Continue reading

Hearts of Stone

This is for the many who have been wounded by abuses and have hardened their hearts to cope with the traumas. Hardened hearts not only keep us from getting hurt again, but also cause many to be callous and non-caring. The hardened exterior has to come down for healing and restoration to take place so that true love can find it’s way in also. Remember, broken hearts lead to broken starts.

Hearts of stone
are in the making
when people get hurt
and hearts are breaking.
And hearts of stone
make some cold as ice
with no compassion
nor desire to be nice. Continue reading

The Facade of Narcissism

This is for the many victims of abuse who have innocently fallen victim to the lies and manipulations of others. Many narcissistic people put on a facade, pretending to be a certain way while hiding the truth and waiting to lash out against their victims. These victims become “trapped” in the web of lies that entangles them in the narcissists deceptive plan.

The facade of narcissism…
are the words that came to me tonight.
As I think of those wounded…
by deception hidden from Light.
For narcissists are skillful…
with lies that control and destroy…
as they manipulate the innocent…
playing with hearts as a toy. Continue reading